I stumbled across this site a while ago, and have been fascinated by it since. I think there are a few categories of people here:
1. Monster weiner guys who come to show off and get an ego boost
2. Tiny weiner guys who come to be degraded by themselves, enjoying the shame they already feel in a masochistic way.
3. Guys who are gay/bicurious/a little homo who come to look at other dudes dongs and try to get all frisky inside by comparing
4. People like me, who are probably too curious for their own good as to how they stack up.
Now, I understand that there are differing opinions on the size of a man's penis, both from men and women. Overall, the report is that, for the most part, it's not the most important thing in the world. Where size does seem matter is in girth. I have also read that size matters in relation to extremes, as neither a micropenis nor a mandingo dick would be enjoyable for a huge majority of women. It seems as though evolution, or God, or fate, has put men at the correct size overall, with some deviation occurring.
Research tell us that 50% of all men are under 5.5-6 inches long. Approximately 2% of all men are 7 inches, with <1%>
Since it seems to be the more important of the two dimensions, thickness should also be examined. 5 inches is just above average, with 6 inches occurring approximately 2-4%, and 7 inches almost never (but that's a coke can, so come on!).
Thus the most often occurring penis is 5.5-6 inches long x 4.5-5 inches around. The most often occurring vagina, when aroused, 5-6 inches deep x 1.5-2.5 inches wide (4.71-7.85 around). So, most men and women match up well, even though most men are not going to stretch their partners vagina each time they have sex.
So, if most women are satisfied by their partner's size, and most men do not come close to the magical (in my mind) marks of 8 inch dicks that women take notice of, why do most men, and some women, continue to make it a big deal?
I am not planning on disclosing my size. (If you're curious, ask me, and we can talk about it, although I would guess most of the people who read this blog are not interested for one reason or another) However, I will say that I do not lack, and I have used the above site to compare myself to others.
How women view themselves, parallels this issue: most men see their partner much more kindly than she sees herself. It is an issue of self-image, body appreciation, and understanding. I don't deny that I get fascinated by knowing that I'll never have a penis big enough to make a porn star quiver. The idea of my inadequacy frightens me, captivates me, holds me to look at dark parts of myself. I think women (or men) read beauty magazines in a similar way: comparing themselves, seeing where they are better or worse.
I don't know what causes people to be so down on themselves, why we feel a need to compete and push against others in an effort to demonstrate our own inadequacies. I know why I do it, but I believe it is vital for us to pick up our eyes when we walk in the shower rooms. Instead of looking at the body of the bather next to us, hoping to see how we are better or worse, we should just look in the mirror, and move past the darkness that so often binds us to our petty self-loathing.
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